How to Make a Guy Fall in Love With You (12 Words That Get His Attention)
Have you ever been so deeply in love you felt desperate for a man who wasn’t feeling the same way for you?
You know the kind of heartache I’m talking about…
The kind where the more urgent you felt, the more he seemed to be backing away?
Where the drama and intensity piles up until…
BOOM: the relationship breaks completely, leaving YOU completely devastated, while he seems only mildly inconvenienced (and moves on to a new woman, practically the next day).
What if you could COMPLETELY reverse that scenario?
Make him so desperate for YOU that he can’t sleep at night for wondering how to make you his and his alone…
Cause him to pursue you restlessly until you’re nestled happily in his arms, listening to his voice rumbling in his chest as he murmurs one romantic promise after another…
here’s a 12 word sentence you can say to your man… that will trigger intense feelings of love and instinctual attraction for you deep within his chest.
Hidden in these 12 words is a “secret signal” that fuels a man’s instinct to love, please and protect you with all his heart
This instinct is so hardwired into a man’s genetics that it will drive him to work harder than ever before to make your relationship the best part of both of your lives.
In fact, triggering this powerful instinct is so important to having the best possible relationship with your man that once you send your man one of these “Secret Signals”…
…You’ll immediately notice him open his mind and heart to you in a way he’s never experienced before and he’ll see you as the only woman in the world who has ever truly understood him.
And the powerful “secret signal” found in those 12 words is just one of many that veteran dating coach and relationship expert, James Bauer, has discovered throughout his career.
Thousands of women are already using these “secret signals” to transform their failing relationships into the passionate romances they’ve always dreamed of.
And countless other women are using them to hook great guys from the very first time they meet.
Imagine knowing the exact words to say to a man to truly open up his heart to you and fuel his desire to be daring and romantic…
…And what keeps his love and attention transfixed on you and only you.
This presentation reveals these relationship secrets and much, much more… and it’s a real game-changer for any woman who knows she deserves better.
If now is a good time, you’ll want to watch this life-changing presentation while it’s still up.
The 3 Things a Man Wants From You
Next, I want to talk about how a man doesn’t really want a “perfect” woman… but he wants 3 things from you instead.
Before I tell you those 3 things, let me ask you a question:
How much time do you spend trying to be the kind of woman you think men want?
If you’re like most women, it’s a LOT.
You spend all this time making yourself look sexy and attractive.
You put tons of effort to present yourself as fun, interesting, worldly, and not needy in the slightest.
You want to show him just how good you’d be for him… and how amazing his future would be if he chose you as the woman by his side…
And yet it doesn’t work…. it NEVER works.
Why do you work so hard… and the guy in your life just takes you for granted, if he even notices you at all?
It’s probably because he’s immature… right? You tell yourself “he can’t recognize a good thing until it’s gone”.
Or maybe… just maybe… it’s because you’ve been doing all the work for him.
Let me explain.
If He Doesn’t Work For Your Relationship, He Won’t Value It
FACT: Men value most the things they have to work hard to get.
Hand a man a college diploma, and he won’t value it as much as if he’d had to put in years of study and effort to earn it.
Hand a man the perfect girlfriend, and he won’t value her as much as if he’d had to woo her for weeks just to get her to go out with him.
This is why playing “hard to get” works.
But, as you’ve probably already noticed… there’s a BIG problem with playing hard to get.
That strategy stops working once he’s actually got you.
Something happens when guy decides he’s won you over. It’s almost like he thinks, “Game over”…as his mind moves on to the next challenge.
What is going on?! And how can you stop it from wrecking your relationship?
It’s Not Just You… ALL Women Experience This (That’s Why They Ask for Help)
Tragically, many women give up on love.
They never let themselves get too close to a man, for fear of scaring him off.
But other women try a different approach…
They Get Help
Relationship coach James Bauer is one of the people they turn to.
It turns out that James noticed that many clients were coming to him, complaining about guys who suddenly went cold on them.
Everything would be going great, until suddenly… something would change, almost overnight.
A guy who’d been warm, affectionate, and interested would suddenly go distant.
He would no longer have any time for her. He wouldn’t smile when greeting her. He’d stop making eye contact. His kisses were brusque.
Wanting to help his clients, James investigated.
Until he discovered the one thing that made sense of everything…
And made him realize why all these men were backing away from the woman.
He knew what these men needed… it was the one thing they weren’t getting.
There really was nothing “wrong” going on with these women.
But rather, it all came down to something he called “The Hero Instinct.”
Most Women Do Something that Drives Men Away… Without Ever Realizing It
One of the most wonderful things about women is how naturally caring they are.
Look at you. You’re always there for your guy. You look after him. You always make time for him. You’d do anything for him.
However, you never realize that, when you do this, you’re actually taking something away from him…
You see, he wants to be your hero. He doesn’t want you to be his hero. Men love heroes and their stories. Look at how many grown men are still fascinated by Marvel comics and superhero movies.
Every man on Earth, from the time he was a boy, dreamed of growing up to be the kind of hero who would save the world… and get the girl at the same time.
However, most men don’t get to indulge their world-saving side in their nine-to-five jobs.
Circumstances don’t call for them to rip off their corporate ties and spring into action, revealing their superman side.
Maybe they can’t save the world. But they can still get the girl.
Getting the girl is a worthy challenge for an ordinary guy with the heart of a superhero.
It takes superhuman confidence. Superhuman charm. Superhuman immunity to pain.
And now… all he needs to find is…
A girl who needs a hero.
Do you need a hero? Let me guess… That’s not you.
You’re strong. You’re independent. You can fix a leaky faucet. You can drive a stick shift. You can take care of yourself. You’re never going to make that Jerry Maguire mistake of looking for a man to complete you.
Instead, you have a lot to offer a man. You’re generous. Kind. Loving. Giving to a fault. All you want is to find a man who’s willing to receive all you have to give.
And that’s why heroes aren’t showing up in your life. That’s why you have ended up with so many takers instead. Guys who take everything you have and leave you high and dry.
If you want a hero, then you need to advertise for one.
3 Ways You Can Invite a Hero into Your Life, Starting Today
1. Ask a Guy for Help
Ask him for advice on buying a new computer. Ask him to listen to that weird rattling sound that’s started up in your car. Ask him to reach something on the top shelf.
Then thank him warmly, with a great big smile of appreciation.
No, that doesn’t make you needy. It makes you a woman with space for a man in her life.
2. Take Pleasure in Male Company
Guys love women who appreciate men for just being men.
So what if his apartment is a shrine to sports? So what if he spends hours on his fantasy football team? So what if his idea of a clean shirt is the one with the fewest wrinkles?
He’s a guy. It’s okay.
You don’t need him to be more like you, because you’ve got the feminine side of the gender equation covered.
3. Let Him Earn Your Respect
Superheroes love challenges. They don’t want to be given a gold medal just for showing up.
So they don’t want your love handed to them on a plate… they want to earn it.
There’s one thing a hero craves even more than a woman’s eternal enduring love: A challenge.
Therefore, give him opportunities to prove himself.
You don’t have to do the work of winning him over. Sit back, relax, and allow him the pleasure of winning your admiration.
Keep Learning This
Since you’re still reading, then there’s a good chance this article has been valuable and helpful to you… and you’re already imagining how to use this material on a man who has gone cold on you.
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