what you will learn today
- What is a High-Value Woman?
- Never allow anyone else’s opinion dictate what they think about themselves; –
- Never let someone else tell them what they need from the relationship;
- Never use emotional manipulation as a way of getting things done; –
- Never give up their power by letting others make decisions for them;
- Never allow their future to be dictated by the past.
- Never make decisions that limit them because of someone else’s feelings
- Conclusion: 6 important things that high-value women should never do with their personal boundaries
It’s never too late to learn how to set and maintain healthy boundaries. Learning how to do so can be a life-changing experience.
No matter how old you are, it is never too late or too difficult to start setting new boundaries in your life (and for those of you who may already have some established boundaries, it’s not a bad idea either).
Here are six important things that high-value women should never do with their personal boundaries:
What is a High-Value Woman?
A high-value woman has developed her own sense of self independent from what others think. This includes everything from how she presents herself, what she believes in, what she isn’t willing to do, and the kind of people that she is going to be around.
A high-value woman knows exactly what she wants and goes for it with no apologies or guilt trips, while also not being so caught up in her own world that she can’t put herself in someone else’s shoes. It’s important to high-value women that they live their life with balance and perspective.
A high-value woman has ways of communicating with others that are effective, honest, reliable, direct, clear, and considerate. They don’t waste other people’s time or use passive-aggressive manipulation to get what they want because they
Never allow anyone else’s opinion dictate what they think about themselves; –
Having high-value boundaries means that you are never going to let someone else dictate what you think about yourself.
If someone has a negative opinion of you and is trying to convince you to change your mind because they have a different opinion, don’t let them.
There’s no point in changing your thinking because someone else thinks it should be done; that person is not the only one who matters when it comes down to what you decide for yourself.
You’re a higher priority than they are in this situation, as their opinion doesn’t matter more than yours does.
If someone tries to tell you that you need something in the relationship from them or from others, don’t let them make decisions for you.
Never let someone else tell them what they need from the relationship;
Never let someone else tell you what you need from the relationship, whether it’s emotional or physical.
No matter who that person is, whether it’s your best friend or someone you just started dating, if they think they know what you need in a relationship, then they’re wrong.
This can be tricky sometimes because people have good intentions and can seem to actually know what you want, but not always.
You are the only one who knows how you feel and what is right for you in certain situations, so don’t let anyone else make decisions or take control of your life.
Never use emotional manipulation as a way of getting things done; –
Emotional manipulation is taking advantage of someone else’s emotions to get what you want. For example, you could offer something that’s only offered to the people who do what you want or threaten to withhold something critical for them in order to get them to comply with your ways.
This may seem like it’s effective but it doesn’t lead to positive outcomes in any situation, and usually has negative consequences later on. therefore, high-value women never use Emotional manipulation by taking advantage of someone else’s emotions.
This also makes the person doing the manipulation feel guilty because they are taking advantage of someone else.
Never give up their power by letting others make decisions for them;
Never give up their power by letting others make decisions for them. As a high-value woman, you have the power and control to make decisions about your own life and the things that are important to you.
You’re going to be the one who has to go through whatever that decision is, so why not make it yourself? This includes everything from what kind of perfume to wear to what’s going on with your career.
If you let someone else make these decisions for you, then they’ll feel like they have complete control over you in ways that they shouldn’t be able to because of their decisions.
Never allow their future to be dictated by the past.
For some people, their past has a lot of power over their present life and can dictate what they do for the future.
The thing is, other people’s memories are not more important than yours. You are in charge of your own life and you will be the one living it.
That means that you’re going to have to live with whatever decision comes out of your past decisions- good or bad- and you won’t have any control over how you live now or in the future.
Never make decisions that limit them because of someone else’s feelings
One of the things that you’ll want to do, as a high-value woman, ensures that you are never making decisions that limit you because of someone else’s feelings.
If you find yourself doing something for someone else because they have a strong feeling about it and it doesn’t agree with what you want, don’t let them dictate your actions.
You should be living your own life and making decisions on your own terms. You may need to talk to this person more to help them understand that their feelings are not controlling the decisions in your life.
Conclusion: 6 important things that high-value women should never do with their personal boundaries
It’s important for high-value women to not only have boundaries but also know when and how they’re being violated.
Boundaries are a way of protecting ourselves from anything that could hurt us or cause us pain in the future. When we allow people to violate our personal space without consequence, it doesn’t just affect them–it affects you too.
This is because by letting someone cross your boundary line(s), you are giving them permission to do so again.
You don’t want anyone violating your boundaries out of habit if it will end up hurting you down the road!