what you will learn today
- what is a high-value woman?
- How can I become a high-value women?
- 1.kill the vanilla
- 2. She maintains her own independence
- 3. Create & build that passionate life today right now.
- 4.Up your standards for everything but specifically for dating.
- 5. She’s mysterious.
- 6. She takes back control of her time
- 7. Connect to your love craving but detach from any specific guy.
Hello, this is Jones, and if you flag to find out the second step of How you can become a high-value woman and how you can quadruple your value in the eyes of a worthy and amazing man.
Stick around is how we sharing with you how to do just that on my episode today.
I’m super excited to be sharing with you how to literally quadruple the value that you have in the eyes of the worthy amazing passion of guys and a lot of women ask me.
what is a high-value woman?
So being a high-value woman has a lot to do with how you carry yourself in the world, and it has nothing to do with how you look on the outside.
So in this article, I wanna discuss with you these 10 traits that will get you thinking in a different direction.
They’ll get you thinking about what really matters, in order to attract your dream partner. And it’s not all about looks.
Looks are great, and you should put effort into looking your best, but they’re not everything when it comes to attracting your dream partner.
How can I become a high-value women?
So the steps that I will be sharing with you will help you accomplish that beyond you being more available in the eyes of men.
You will create a life at the same time in parallel that’s more exciting to you.
That’s more fulfilling to you that helps you to create a stronger Legacy, which is what life’s all about.
The first step of becoming a high-value woman is pretty simple and it’s what I call
1.kill the vanilla
kill the vanilla means that there’s a lot of women who have disconnected out of political correctness from their[wps_lists icon=”arrow-right” icon_color=”#81d742″]
- True passions
- True thoughts
- True beliefs
- And convictions about things in life.
So if a guy asks you, what is your favorite type of food? and you say well, everything and what’s your favorite music? and you say well like like all kinds of music and not because that’s the truth inside of you,[wps_highlight background=”#48ea50″ color=”#000000″]because you’re so disconnected from what you want that you really everything seems the same to you.[/wps_highlight]
That’s not something that allows you to raise your value.
So if you connect to the things that you are[wps_lists icon=”arrow-right” icon_color=”#dd3333″]
- Excited about
- You define them for yourself
- Then, more importantly, you’re willing to express them to the world
- And specifically to men that will find you as someone who is clear about what you want
- Somebody who knows herself
- And that race is your value instantly now
it’s very important that you understand that there’s going to be guys who will absolutely hate.
Say but I’d rather you have that kind of personality that a guy says I love her or hate her then she’s nice.
She’s okay, right so you’re not doing things just to be showy or to be bold, but you’re doing them because your heart has fire and it’s not willing to let that fire died down and it just needs to express it.
The second signs that she’s a high-value woman is
2. She maintains her own independence
So this doesn’t matter if She makes her own money
Therefore she is independent financially of her own self. So she takes care of herself no matter what.
She is not going to rely on her partner for any financial means.
Obviously this is different once you do have a family, you have kids, it’s completely different. But, when you are dating a man, and when you’re just starting a relationship or whatever may be in your journey, in your life, you should be financially independent of anyone.
You should be making your own money, and that’s one of the traits that a high value woman has.
3. Create & build that passionate life today right now.
Yes, what I mean a lot of women have this illusion that their life is flattening, but when they connect to this guy,[wps_highlight background=”#fff689″ color=”#333333″]it’s going to become incredibly intense and passionate and here’s the thing at the beginning of the relationship.[/wps_highlight]
Even if your life is boring. It’s got to become exciting, but guess what happens if you have not built the skills to create a passionate life and you’re not leaving the kind of life.
that amazingness is going to Flat Line just as well when you connect to the guy and then it’s gonna be boring for both of you.
So if you create the kind of life that you wanted a but connecting[wps_lists icon=”check” icon_color=”#81d742″]
- your passions
- connecting things you love
- doing things that are scary but For your growth
right and you’re continuously feeling that intensity in your life today. If you can create that right now that guys will feel oh my God, I want to be part of that.
Your friends will feel the same way.
Okay, so it’s not about you doing something to impress anyone.
It’s for you to do things that right now will make you feel more intensity in your life.the the third step of How can I become a high value women is to
4.Up your standards for everything but specifically for dating.
why? because the moment you raise your standards for dating. guys know that they have to[wps_lists icon=”mail-forward” icon_color=”#8224e3″]
- do more
- create something more special to be with you
- and that raises their value as well.
So standard for dating means what does [wps_highlight background=”#48ea50″ color=”#000000″]it take for a guy to take you out?[/wps_highlight]
A guy who messages you without interest without being specific with you, if that’s enough to take you out. Then you have a low standard so create a high standard.
It’s not important on Impossible standard but high standard so that the guy who goes out with you know, that he has to go through certain Hoops to get to know you to get to be To go out with you.
What are your standards for physical contact? What are your standards for sexual contact?
So when you have high standards for physical contact sexual contact, that means that the guy is going to understand that as much as he’s testing and pushing boundaries.
He will know that you are somebody who cares about yourself who valleys yourself and therefore somebody who’s valuable for him as well because that makes him more unique.
that means that not any clown can get you if he’s more unique than he feels more value towards you and towards himself.
the last step of How can I become a high value women is to
5. She’s mysterious.
She is open and honest, but she does not overshare or provide information that is not needed or required.
So, I think this is one of the mistakes that women make when they start dating someone, they overshare a lot of information that is not needed or required.
You may end up sharing that information in the future, but in the very beginning especially, you do not overshare information. You keep things to yourself.
This is your life, this your journey.
These are things that happened to you in the past and have nothing to do with him at this moment.
Therefore, if you keep some things for yourself, you do not overshare, or provide more information than needed that’s the quality that a high-value woman understands and is needed.
6. She takes back control of her time
she takes it nice and slow, at her own pace, especially when she’s starting a relationship.
She is the one who is taking her time and allowing the relationship to unfold because she’s not one to dive in and get herself hurt.
Spend Some (Or A Lot Of) Time Alone. Being in a relationship doesn’t mean you need to follow anyone else’s “rules” for what a relationship is supposed to look like. Don’t Forget Your Old Friendships.
Maintain A Hobby. Exercise. Stay Focused On Your Own Goal
She’s a smart woman, she knows that she needs to take her time and that a man will actually value her more, and will respect her for making that decision, for allowing the relationship to unfold.
7. Connect to your love craving but detach from any specific guy.
Last one is create that intensity in the heart that is called craving for Love without an attachment to any specific guys.
Here’s what happens a lot of women who want to create love but have been hurt in the past and don’t want to appear and feel and be needy, which is something no guy wants.
this connects so much from their craving that they appear to be very independently disconnected from emotions.
They appear to never need a guy and a guy wants to feel needed in.
Anyway, so not in the needy way, right? So the way to do this is to connect to the craving that you have in your heart. you know that[wps_lists icon=”arrow-right” icon_color=”#81d742″]
- you want to love
- you know that it’s exciting
- You know that it’s going to raise the quality of your life,
- but you don’t attach it to any specific guy.
That’s how you can get away with still feeling it and not be needed because you know that if the guy doesn’t show up the right way.
if he doesn’t give you what you need to open your heart to him, then you don’t have to fear not getting in your life.
You’re still going to get it.
Okay, so craving without attachment to a specific guy creates a high element of worth.
That’s the feeling that a guy knows when he connects with you. She can walk away if I’m just being lazy she can walk away.
If I’m just saying things without taking action and again that forces guys who have it inside of him to be more do more value more and create the kind of relationship that you want.
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