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Hey guys, what’s up? It’s Jones. All right. So for this week’s article as you guys can see by the title.
I wanted to talk to you guys about a couple of different things. the question of today is how to get a guy to notice you? well, we are going to cover that today.
there are definitely right ways and wrong ways for a woman to attract the attention of men and some of the things that women do men actually find ridiculous.
I think you can do in order to make a guy or a girl notice you because going back to school is probably that one person in your class that you have a crush on, but you don’t know how to actually get that other person to like talk to you or just even notice you.
I will mention those things at the end so make sure to stay till the end
okay maybe not extraordinary but here are a few ways for you to capture the attention of men that US guys love. the first step for him to notice you is
#1 the simplest eye contact
By simply making that visual connection, a man will know that you’re somewhat interested and if he’s also interested, he’ll come up to you and start a conversation.
I think that it’s really important to make eye contact with that person. because of every time, they walk past you and you don’t look at them. You’re never going to get that sense of how that person might actually feel about you too.
You’re not even gonna know if that person is noticing you. you’re sitting down in the hallway and the guy that you like is walking down the hallway towards you.
I think there are certain ways in order to tell if somebody likes you just on the way that they look at you.
if you look at them and they hold eye contact with you or if you look at them and they kind of like smile a little bit.
if you guys have that eye contact and you like can feel something when you guys look at each other and that’s definitely a way that that person is going to remember you.
the second step on how to get a guy to notice you
#2 be unique
whether it’s your fashion choices or the way you walk the more you stand out the easier will be to pick you out of the almost 4 billion women on the planet.
#3 the most effective way is just to talk to them(communication)
you don’t have to come up to guys out of nowhere and say you’re hot .in fact don’t do that, but find out a good time to approach somewhere where we can chat for a bit without being interrupted.
if he doesn’t ask you for your phone number or to hang outright, then he might be shy or unavailable or maybe he’s just not interested in dating at the moment.
but he will have noticed you so from a guy’s perspective those are the right ways and the wrong ways to get a guy to notice you.
I’ve been in these situations before. And with that being said, here’s the first thing that I came up with.
the third-step on how to get a guy to notice you
#4 look good/smell good
we’ve all heard this before and everybody says this and they say that looks don’t matter, and I think that’s really true when it comes to actually know somebody and talking to that person and getting to know them and all that kind of stuff.
But when you’re dealing with the first impression of somebody. I feel the way that they look the way that they smell the way that they carry themselves all these different things play a part and what that person is going to see in you,
so I’d say first thing in order to get somebody to notice you either smell really good.
try to look a certain way that when that person sees you they’re gonna remember seeing.
Don’t change what you look like for another person. just so that they like you, but if you’re trying to catch somebody’s eye and you’re trying to get somebody to notice you.
I think there are certain things that you need to do. In order to do that.
the fourth-step on how to get a guy to notice you
#5 be confident
I think that if you want somebody to go out of their way to notice you, you need to act in order to get somebody else’s attention and I feel one of those ways is to act confidently in yourself.
So if you have no confidence in yourself, you just don’t like yourself.
You just don’t like anything about yourself, I think that gives off like negative Vibes to somebody and I feel for us to be hanging around people who are negative and people who don’t like themselves and people who are sad all the time and all these kind of things.
Those are not people that you’re attracted to. I think that you need to look yourself in the mirror and tell yourself that you’re happy with who you are and that whatever comes of the situation.
if you talk to that person and they don’t give off Vibes at you or whatever at least you did that instead of not doing anything.look yourself in the face and tell yourself that you are good enough to be around whoever it is that you’re going and having a crush on.
The fifth-step on how to get a guy to notice you
So if you have a crush on somebody make sure that you follow them on social media make sure that you like some of the things or like comment on some of them.
Bring up some of the things that you saw on their social media while you’re at school and I think that’s a good way to like get that other person to like notice you all the time and all right.
So this is where it starts to get a little bit difficult, but I feel like you want to make that connection stronger.
I feel like it’s really important to create a situation where you guys are able to get to know each other a little bit better.
This is where you would either like send them a text or send them a DM.
having that person come and be with you so that you can talk to them is a very important thing in order for somebody to like notice you and to get to know you. because that leads me to my next point.
the six-step on how to get a guy to notice you
#7 have unique skill/talent
you’re going to want to when you’re actually with that person. like start to show them things that you’re good at or talk about things that you know, or show them a special talent that you have that makes you unique than anybody else.
Just let them know who you are and what you like and what you don’t like If you guys are watching TV, let’s say and that person goes to reach for the remote you purposely but it looks like it’s accidentally touched that person like on their hand or something or just like bump them on the shoulder.
I think it brings in a whole different connection. you guys have now actually instead of just like looking at each other and making eye contact and talking to each other you guys basically just held hands.
some of the things that women do men actually find ridiculous. these are a few of them.
#1 wear a ton of makeup.
we understand that makeup is meant to accentuate your already beautiful features and most of the time we like it, but once your face stops looking like a face you’ve gone too far.
#2 wearing very little clothing
some men will notice you for that but not the right ones. here is a study that was mention on a post on HuffPost
“body perceptions may lead those who are characterized in terms of their bodies to be seen as more reactive and emotional, traits that may also serve to work against career advancement.” But the findings may mean good news for your sex life: “A focus on the body, and the increased perception of sensitivity and emotion it elicits,”gray
#3 finally, doing nothing
we’ve all hope that even though we were doing anything to get noticed, that somehow we would still get noticed. if that happens great.
but most guys mines are so full of nonsense that you really do s.omething extraordinary to capture our attention and hold it.
So I don’t know what else to do in order for somebody to like notice you other than like actually doing all of these things.
I hope that you guys liked this week’s article on the six-step on how to get a guy to notice you.
Let me know in the comments of helps you out and that being said, I love you guys so much and as always I will see you guys next Saturday and the next week’s article.