what you will learn today
- 7. Start Saying NO In Other Words.
- 6 Be A Little Bit Mysterious.
- 5 Use Social Media To Highlight Your Fun & Independent Life.
- 4. Stop Initiating Communications When You Miss Someone
- 3. PRIORITIZE YOUR NEEDS… PUT YOURSELF FIRST.
- 2. Connect With Him On An Emotionally Intimate Level.
- 1. Give Him Something To Miss…
- Don’t Talk About Missing Him… Or Telling Him You’re Going To Miss Him…
Hello, this is Jones welcome to love tips secrets, where I share with conscious, ambitious, heart-centered and successful women how you can create the relationship of your dreams, attract the kind of guy you want without any type of gimmicks or manipulation and as a result of stepping to the most alive and the most feminine version of you.
In this article, you will learn how to make a man miss you, the 7 steps that always work… so don’t go anywhere because we’re starting right now
This site is all about helping you build great relationships so you can grow happy with the people you love. So, if you’re interested in making your love.on to the 7 tips for making any man miss you. Missing someone means that you are yearning for physical or emotional intimacy from them, but not getting it.Click To Tweet
Perhaps you’re in a relationship and you’re not feeling appreciated.. or you’re in a long distance relationship and you want to see him more.
Or you’ve had a falling out or recent break-up and want to reconcile…
Either way, these 7 steps will get his attention and increase his yearning for you.… so, without further ado… here are the top 7 ways to make a guy miss you.
7. Start Saying NO In Other Words.
don’t always be available for him by always saying yes when he calls and asks you to go out… especially if he’s calling with short notice.Saying no to his requests for plans sends him the message that you have other engagements or commitments that are taking priority… at least now when he’s asking.Click To Tweet
It also forces him to recognize that he must make advanced plans because you have other things going on and you’re not sitting by the phone waiting for his calls.
He will also begin to recognize that he does NOT get the privilege of calling you or asking you to go out when he feels the whim.
He has to earn back that “high priority” status. So Make other plans and he will start to remember how you used to be available for him, but now you’ve moved on and are keeping busy.
Oh, and I’m not suggesting that you play games and hide behind the phone. Go out with your friends and have fun again, away from your man.
6 Be A Little Bit Mysterious.
That means you don’t have to share every detail of your daily activities with him. You don’t need to over-explain every little thing that you’re doing…
you want him to wonder.. to develop intrigue… share bits and pieces of your life .. and make him earn your trust.
So, when you’re going out to dinner with your parents, tell him you’re going out to dinner…
you don’t have to tell him who you’re going with… unless he asks… When you have plans with friends…and he asks you on a date last minute..
tell him you have plans with friends.. you don’t have to go above and beyond to make him feel at ease about what you’re doing.. remember…you want him to appreciate you and your time… and you want him to remember your value as a friend. So…let him wonder and if he needs to ask, let him do that too.Click To Tweet
Sometimes you can use social media to your advantage by indirectly showing him that you have an independent, full and fun life apart from him.
So, let him see this new, independent you via social media. Whether you are out to dinner with friends or attending a rock concert, take fun photos and share them on your social media.
So use your social media to update everyone of the fun you’re having and this will definitely cause him to pay attention. Ok…
now we are getting to the most important ones… so keep watching because these are more impactful
4. Stop Initiating Communications When You Miss Someone
it is hard to not reach out to that person because You want to be connected and communicating.
But if you want a man to really miss you, you must pull away.
So, Do not initiate calls or texts to him. Eventually, he will recognize the difference and wonder why you’ve suddenly gone silent on him.Let him feel a little down and realize he was happier when things were different. Your silence will speak volumes and he will usually initiate contact again pretty quickly.Click To Tweet
Oh, and Make him wait before you return his calls and texts.
I understand the urge to respond back immediately, especially if you’ve been waiting to hear from him for a while.
But Taking some time before Responding to his contact sends the message that you are busy and not just sitting by your phone waiting for him to reach out.
Have patience and take your time before responding… doing so will certainly increase his yearning for you.
3. PRIORITIZE YOUR NEEDS… PUT YOURSELF FIRST.
Sometimes people go out of their way to show the person they’re dating how much they like them. In doing so, they feel like they don’t want to disappoint them…
they jump at every opportunity to talk, hang out, text… and Usually, that’s a good thing…
but not if you’re trying to pique his interest… trying to get him to miss you more.
In this case, you need to take the attention off of him and put it back onto yourself. Take care of you first… pick up some hobbies, make and KEEP plans with your friends.
fill up your social calendar…. And when he calls last minute to make plans… Oops.. sorry, I have plans… this will make him prioritize and plan his time with you.
2. Connect With Him On An Emotionally Intimate Level.
When you are together… when you’re spending time with him, create a safe place for him to be emotionally intimate…Let him feel a little down and realize he was happier when things were different. Your silence will speak volumes and he will usually initiate contact again pretty quickly.Click To Tweet
We all need that deep connection with someone, and that deep and wonderful feeling of intimacy flourishes in an atmosphere of safety.
We open up when we feel safe. We take risks when we feel safe. So Create a safe zone for him to be freely expressive– To be himself.
That means being a person who is very accepting, caring and compassionate.
When he’s connected with you on an emotionally intimate level, he will miss you when he feels disconnected, right?
After all, you want him to be lonely for you… and Loneliness is the feeling we get in our heart when we want intimacy and to be connected with someone, but no one is available or willing to connect.
1. Give Him Something To Miss…
OK.. so that sounds ridiculous, right? But simply put, you’ve got to be that person that he wants to be with the most.
you have to rock his world in a way that no one else can.. and leaves him wanting more.. leave him craving more. and the only one who can satisfy that craving…
that need is you… so you must create that dynamic… that feeling that he can’t get anywhere else. Every time he thinks of you,
he’s going to be thinking about the fun things.. he going to associate you with everything fun.
Don’t Talk About Missing Him… Or Telling Him You’re Going To Miss Him…
don’t let him think you’ve become too attached or needy… let him wonder if you’re actually missing him. Then he’ll be the one watching these videos.
ok… I can’t believe I just said that.. but yeah. So, Keep things light and fun.
even though you’re disappointed by the fact that he doesn’t show you he misses you, you have to hide that disappointment…keep things light and fun and carefree. Not once, but every time. light, fun, easygoing, confident…. Not disappointed, frustrated or insecure about where things are going.Click To Tweet
Look, These suggestions aren’t anything that you haven’t heard before… But why are they so difficult for some people to do? Well…
because they feel counter-intuitive and risky… I can hear the reasons and excuses now…
if I’m not available he’ll find someone else, if I’m not responsive he’ll find someone who is, If I don’t call him back, he will think I don’t like him….
If I seem less interested, he will become less interested or find someone who is more interested….
Yes.. all of them feel risky… you’re fearing the worst thing that could happen… that he will become less interested, right?
You’re worried that It won’t work.. and think I should just be myself… but All of these excuses are driven by fear.. the fear of being rejected.
So, as I’ve said in other videos, the most important thing you can do to increase the quality of your relationship…is to overcome your fear of being rejected…
overcome your fear of the relationship ending.. And in order to do so, you must adopt the belief that if It’s meant to happen, it will…
if you’re not compatible, it’s not going to work out in the long run anyway.
Rejection doesn’t mean there is something wrong with you…. It simply means that this is not the right person for you… period.
if he is the person for you if you are really that compatible, then implementing these suggestions will certainly make him miss you more…
That’s for sure… But if it’s not right… if he’s not the right one for you, if there are too many differences, or if he’s not the committing type…nothing you can do will change that outcome… it just won’t work… and that’s ok. The tips may seem pretty easy, but you need to stick to them; be disciplined.Click To Tweet
Don’t give in to the temptation of answering his calls or texts too fast. Even if you’ve been dating for years, put in some effort and you’ll have him missing you and wanting you more.
So, Have I missed any good suggestions for making a man miss you? Have you tried any of these suggestions before? How did they work?
I’d love to hear your stories… Leave a comment below and I’ll be sure to respond to all of them.l. Thanks for reading I hope you got something on our topic of how to make a man miss you… I’ll see you in the next article