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Unlocking His Heart: What Every Man Truly Seeks in a Woman

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By jones


In This Article, We will explore what men want in women. It is important to remember that every man has different needs and wants, so there’s no one-size-fits-all solution here.

Men always want to feel like they’re king of the castle and in order to do that, they need a woman who is willing to let them take charge.

Women, on the other hand, want someone who compliments them when they need it and lets them be themselves when they want to be.

These are just some things to keep in mind when looking for love because every man has different needs so there’s no one-size-fits-all solution here!

I’m going to respond to your inquiry, which most women believe is as perplexing as determining the meaning of life. Or why do men have nipples? Let me tell you something.

The answer to the question “what do men truly desire in a woman” is far easier than any of those issues.

Here are the six things every guy wants in a woman:

1. We want a woman who makes us feel manly or masculine, in order of importance.

Today’s strong, self-reliant females are dominating the workplace and completely mastering their male counterparts. That’s wonderful, and it’s also good for society.

However, some women adopt a similar attitude of dominance and bring it into their relationships, only to wonder why the only men who appear to stay in a relationship are wimpy, beta males.

Men fall in love with women who know this “secret ingredient”

A confident, like, dominant guy will be wildly attracted to a woman who adds to his masculinity with her feminine presence, just as a magnet is drawn to a magnet.

This isn’t to imply that there is no equality in the relationship. In fact, the opposite is true. It implies that there is a balance between the two.

If you’re into a take-charge, command type of guy who likes to control his life, you should let him be that man by occasionally taking a step back. Make him feel better about himself a little bit.

Compliment him. Ask him for help even if you don’t always need that help. Let him be chivalrous.

Allow him to open the door for you and pull it out. Tell him how magnificent he is if he helps you lift something. Even if he isn’t that strong, tell him how wonderful he is.

If you’re the type of woman who can’t stand to be submissive, then simply switch roles. Be sweet instead of sour. Tell him how much you admire what he does who supports your life or how perfect he is.

2.A woman who triggers his hero instinct

There’s actually a fascinating new concept in relationship psychology that’s getting a lot of buzz at the moment. It goes to the heart of the riddle about why men fall in love — and who they fall in love with.

The theory claims that men want to be your hero. That they want to step up to the plate for the woman in their lives and provide and protect her.

This is deeply rooted in male biology.

People are calling it the hero instinct. You can watch an excellent video about it here.

If you’ve spent any time with a man, you’ll instantly realize that this all makes a lot of sense. Men come in all shapes and sizes, but the desire to be there for the woman we care about is common to us all.

The simple truth is that your man doesn’t necessarily want to be an action hero. But he does have a biological urge to be your hero.

The main takeaway of the hero instinct is this: Instead of making your guy feel unessential, you need to make him feel wanted and needed.

This doesn’t mean women need to come across as weak. Although you may not need a hero, you do want a man who feels like one.

He wants to have your back. He wants to be your rock. You just need to let him be this once in a while.

Here’s a link again to the free video about the hero instinct.

3. We want a woman to be lighthearted and enjoyable.

The most critical and significant choice you will ever make in your entire life is who you marry.

The problem is, when you’re spending time with him, dating him, and seeing him, you can’t think of it that way.

It’s imperative to master how to live in the moment and appreciate it, as well as how to have a good time with your spouse. Learn how to laugh at him and make fun of him from time to time.

If he teases you or makes fun of you, there’s no need to get aggressive. With a smile, lightly punch him in the arm.

The key phrase is light. Keep in mind, feminine. If you put too much pressure on a guy, he’ll give in to it and try to run away.

So just figure out how to have fun together and after a few dates where you really get to know one another, you may begin discussing things a little more seriously.

4. We want a woman who is emotionally supportive and nurturing, but not overbearing.

It’s crucial to remember that he is the man in the relationship, which means you need to be his rock. However, you can’t always be there for him when he wants it or in the way that he wants it.

He needs to feel as though he is the king of the castle. If you make a habit out of picking up after him, doing his laundry, and cooking for him, it will drive him nuts.

He’ll feel as though there’s no need to look any further because you’re already at his beck and call. He needs an independent woman who has her own life and interests.

The best way to support him is by suggesting that you do things together, but if he wants to go out on his own or with friends, don’t be clingy.

If he’s shutting you out, here’s what’s missing.

5.  We’re looking for someone who is honest and trustworthy.

Don’t get into the practice of telling lies because you’re worried about what other men will say about it.

Don’t be shady because you’re unsure what you want. Being open and honest with others necessitates vulnerability, which might be frightening at times.

But if you connect with someone through a lie, it will be hard to genuinely relate to them.

On the other hand, if you’re clear about what you want and what you’re looking for, there is nothing stopping him from getting to know who you are.

Trust that he won’t judge you negatively or harshly, but rather approach things with kindness.

6. We want someone who makes us feel safe and secure.

There’s nothing like waking up in the morning and feeling as though you may fall over any minute.

It’s scary to wonder if you’ll be able to make it through another day or week without some type of medical problem rearing its ugly face.

And while it can be incredibly difficult, if not impossible to try to prevent issues from arising, what is within your control is how you deal with it.

Be honest about what’s going on and let him know that he has a partner who, instead of running away from the problem, will stand next to him through thick and thin.

In addition to sharing your ups and downs with one another, show love by telling him how much you appreciate everything he does for you.

7. We love a woman who is confident and comfortable with her own body.

If you’re constantly trying to hide parts of your body, he’ll become frustrated because he won’t understand why you can’t just be confident in yourself!

Being insecure about the way you look isn’t attractive or desirable.

In fact, nothing is more turned off than trying to cover up or lie about what’s really going on.

So, with that said, it wouldn’t hurt to be slightly critical of yourself. But make sure you’re not too hard on yourself because he’ll think you’re crazy!

For example, tell him how much you like your hair or your eyes, but make sure you balance it out with something you like about yourself as well.

Don’t completely discredit your looks because we know the men reading this article want a woman who they desire and find sexy!

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8. We enjoy someone who is passionate and driven.

We don’t mean that she should be consumed by her work or that she’s constantly striving for more.

But it’s nice to have someone who has goals and dreams, which she is also willing to share with us.

We may not be able to relate to everything that you talk about or find fascinating, but we want a woman who is her own person.

In fact, the more independent you are in following your dreams, the more respected you’ll be by him.

There’s nothing like dating someone who is willing to jump on board with us.

Conclusion: what a man wants in a woman?

Men want a woman who makes them feel like the king of their castle.

They don’t want to have to do all the cooking, laundry, and cleaning while being on call 24/7.

In order for this type of man to be happy in your relationship, you need to let him take charge occasionally so he feels respected as an equal partner.

Men also enjoy dating someone who is passionate about her work or has dreams that she shares with him–who doesn’t mind being independent from time to time but can still connect when needed.

I hope this article was helpful in understanding men and what they want!

Be sure to check out our other articles on this site so you can build the relationship of your dreams.

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